Upcoming Events
The art of Connection club
UPCOMING EVENTS
april 2025 event
The Art Of Connection Mixer
- Thursday, April 24, 2025
- 6:30pm - 8:00pm EDT
- Curiouser Life and AOCC
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316 Fayetteville St,
Raleigh, NC 27601-1755 - free for all
maY 2025 event
Dance Brave: Awakening the Erotic through Somatic Movement + Dance Social
- Saturday, May 17, 2025
- 7:00pm - 9:30pm EDT
- Tiffany Chambers-Goldberg
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Sanctuary Farm
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
$35 for members
this event is exclusively for Members
june 2025 event
Fuck Yes Summer Series: A Celebration of Exploration, Connection, and Authenticity
- SATURDAY, JUNE 21, 2025
- 12:00 PM-5:00 PM EDT
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Sanctuary Farm
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
$45 for members
$60 for non-members
july 2025 event
Fuck Yes Summer Series: A Celebration of Exploration, Connection, and Authenticity
- SATURDAY, JULY 19, 2025
- 12:00 PM-5:00 PM EDT
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Sanctuary Farm
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
$45 for members
$60 for non-members
august 2025 event
Fuck Yes Summer Series: A Celebration of Exploration, Connection, and Authenticity
- SATURDAY, AUGUST 16, 2025
- 12:00 PM-5:00 PM EDT
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Sanctuary Farm
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
$45 for members
$60 for non-members
The art of Connection club
UPCOMING EVENTS
january 2025 event
Second Base Party: A Celebration of Connection and Exploration
- Sunday, January 19, 2025
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Eco Institute
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 - Kai Baylis + Sarah Harrocks
- 4:00 pm-6:00 pm
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$25 for members
$35 for Non-Members
FEBRUARY 2025 event
Box and Brunch: A Celebration of the Yoni
- Saturday, February 15, 2025
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Eco Institute
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 - Andrew Lazarus
- 6:00pm - 8:30pm EST
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$45 for members
this event is exclusively for Members
FEBRUARY 2025 event
Intimacy: Communication of the Divine Masculine/Feminine
- Sunday, february 23, 2025
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Virtual event
Join us from The comfort of your own space - S. Sequoia Stafford
- 1:00pm - 3:30pm EST
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$20 for members
this event is exclusively for Members
march 2025 event
Sacred Yoni Stroking – A Path to Conscious Connection
- Saturday, March 15, 2025
- 4:00pm - 6:00pm EDT
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eco institute
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
$35 for members
this event is exclusively for Members
april 2025 event
Nude Cookout: A Celebration of Body Freedom
- Saturday, April 19, 2025
- 12:00pm - 2:00pm EDT
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Benzai Bloomstead
2001 E Greensboro Chapel Hill Rd.
Graham, NC 2725 -
$50 for members
this event is exclusively for Members
maY 2025 event
Dance Brave: Awakening the Erotic through Somatic Movement + Dance Social
- Saturday, May 17, 2025
- 7:00pm - 9:30pm EDT
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Eco Institute
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
$35 for members
this event is exclusively for Members
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Second Base Party: A Celebration of Connection and Exploration
Overview:
The “Second Base Party” is an intimate, playful gathering designed to celebrate connection, consent, and exploration in a safe, supportive environment. It’s a space where attendees can enjoy engaging activities that deepen intimacy and foster meaningful connections, all while respecting personal boundaries and emphasizing the principles of consent and communication.
Theme:
Winter warm up-The party invites guests to channel the excitement and curiosity of budding connections, with a focus on the sensual and playful aspects of touch, flirtation, and mutual exploration.
Features and activities
- Consent Workshop: A short, interactive session at the beginning of the party to establish a shared understanding of consent, boundaries, and respectful communication.
- Playful Icebreakers: Fun, lighthearted games designed to help guests connect and build comfort with one another.
- Sensual Stations:
- Touch Exploration: Learn and practice gentle, non-intimate forms of touch, such as hand or shoulder massages.
- Blindfolded Connection: Engage in guided, non-verbal activities that heighten trust and sensory awareness.
- Music and Movement: A curated playlist and open dance floor to set the mood and encourage self-expression through movement.
- Sexy Snacks and Drinks: Enjoy an assortment of aphrodisiac-inspired bites and non-alcoholic beverages to keep the energy flowing.
Atmosphere:
The venue will be transformed into a cozy, inviting space with soft lighting, plush seating, and ambient music. A designated “chill zone” provides a quiet area for reflection or decompressing.
Guidelines:
- Respect is non-negotiable: Attendees are expected to honor each other’s boundaries and communicate openly.
- Participation is optional: Guests are encouraged to engage at their comfort level, whether actively participating or simply observing.
- Dress code: Sexy-casual attire that makes you feel confident and comfortable.
Purpose:
The Second Base Party isn’t about going further physically; it’s about going deeper emotionally and energetically. It’s a celebration of connection, the joy of shared experiences, and the beauty of human interaction in its many forms.
Who Should Attend:
This party is perfect for those curious about exploring intimacy in a supportive, judgment-free environment, whether you’re flying solo, with a partner, or with friends. All genders, orientations, and relationship styles are welcome.
What to Bring:
- A journal or notebook for personal reflections and notes.
- An open mind and willingness to explore new communication techniques.
- A comfortable, supportive environment to fully engage in the session.
about your instructor:
Amber Koskey began practicing yoga in 2010 and has been teaching since 2013 after completing Ashtanga teacher training in San Diego, CA. She opened her own studio, Happy Tortoise Yoga, in her apartment. Passionate about yoga, she believes it’s a life saver and that everyone can benefit from it. Her favorite poses are backbends, while she has a love-hate relationship with purvottanasana. As a member of a close-knit yoga community, she cherishes the camaraderie and is grateful for the strength and support it has provided her.
Amber served in the United States Navy, providing clerical support during the 9/11 crisis. She currently works in private investigation and executive protection. In 2015, she studied under Saraswati at the K Pattabi Jois Institute in Mysore, India, and enjoys outdoor activities like kayaking, hiking, and aerial arts, considering trees her spirit animal.
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presenters
Kai Baylis + Sarah Harrocks - Sunday, January 19, 2025
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Eco Institute
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 -
MEMBERS: $25
Non-Members $35
Step into a world where connection meets curiosity and leave with a greater appreciation for the art of intimacy and human connection.
register now
february 2025 event
Box and Brunch
Join us for a transformative and empowering experience at “Box and Brunch with Andrew Lazarus. This workshop will provide instruction and education on Erotic Massage with the focus being on vulva-owners. This class will showcase techniques of providing both therapeutic and stimulation touch to women (stomach, breasts, yoni), and highlighting that a woman’s yoni is worthy or nurturing massage and sensual care, without any expectation of the experience being sexual or the receiver having to reciprocate in any form of expectation.
This unique class is designed to celebrate the sacred art of orally honoring the yoni, blending mindful practice with the joy of community over delightful brunch food.
What to Expect:
- Educational Exploration: In this 90-minute session, Andrew will guide you through the techniques and principles of honoring the yoni with reverence and skill. You’ll learn how to connect more deeply with your partner, fostering intimacy and understanding through oral pleasure.
- Mindful Practice: This class emphasizes communication, consent, and respect, ensuring that participants leave with a richer understanding of the physical aspects of this sacred act.
- Community Connection: Enjoy a curated brunch that nourishes both body and soul. Savor delicious dishes as you connect with like-minded individuals in a supportive and open environment.
- Play Time: After brunch, you’ll have an hour of open playtime in a safe, consent-driven space. This is an opportunity to explore what you’ve learned, deepen your connections, and embrace the joy of sexual expression.
Who Should Attend:
This class is open to all genders and orientations and is focused on vulva owners. Partners can be cock-owners but the instruction is focused on the yoni. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this experience is designed for anyone interested in enhancing their intimate skills and deepening their connection with themselves and others.
What to Bring:
- Coconut oil or preferred water-based lube
- An open heart and mind
- A partner if you wish (but not required)
- A sense of adventure and curiosity
- Andrew Lazarus
- Saturday, February 15, 2025
- 6:00pm - 8:30pm EST
- $45 Members-only event.
- 8519 Pickards Meadow Road Chapel Hill, NC 27516
Come with a spirit of exploration, and leave with newfound skills, deeper connections, and a full belly. Join us for a morning of learning, laughter, and lusciousness at “Box and Brunch” with Andrew Lazarus.
Intimacy: Communication of the Divine Masculine/Feminine
Have you ever asked yourself, “Will I ever understand them?” Become a people whisperer to expand your openness to intimacy, love and sacred partnership.
Together we’ll learn how to speak into the world of the sacred masculine and feminine. Discover the secret communication methods for all to be heard, seen and valued. Create trust, respect and safety with anyone you’re in relationship with. In this class you’ll learn simple relationship communication foundation skills to make anyone putty in your hands and heal the divide, leading to deeper intimate connections.
What to Expect:
Understanding Divine Masculine and Feminine Energy: Gain insights into how these energies influence communication and relationships.
Building Intimacy and Trust: Learn techniques for fostering intimacy, trust, and safety in your relationships.
Mastering Foundational Communication Skills: Discover tools that encourage understanding and help deepen connections.
Creating Mutual Respect and Validation: Explore strategies to ensure everyone feels heard, seen, and valued.
Bridging Communication Gaps: Receive guidance on establishing sacred partnerships and harmonizing differences.
Who Should Attend:
- Individuals seeking deeper, more meaningful connections in their relationships
- Couples looking to improve communication and intimacy
- Anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies
- Those wanting to cultivate trust and respect in personal or professional relationships
What to Bring:
- A journal or notebook for personal reflections and notes
- An open mind and willingness to explore new communication techniques
- A comfortable, supportive environment to fully engage in the session
about your instructor:
Amber Koskey began practicing yoga in 2010 and has been teaching since 2013 after completing Ashtanga teacher training in San Diego, CA. She opened her own studio, Happy Tortoise Yoga, in her apartment. Passionate about yoga, she believes it’s a life saver and that everyone can benefit from it. Her favorite poses are backbends, while she has a love-hate relationship with purvottanasana. As a member of a close-knit yoga community, she cherishes the camaraderie and is grateful for the strength and support it has provided her.
Amber served in the United States Navy, providing clerical support during the 9/11 crisis. She currently works in private investigation and executive protection. In 2015, she studied under Saraswati at the K Pattabi Jois Institute in Mysore, India, and enjoys outdoor activities like kayaking, hiking, and aerial arts, considering trees her spirit animal.
- S. Sequoia Stafford
- Sunday, March 2, 2025
- 1:00pm - 3:30pm EST
- Virtual event
- $20 members-only event
Join Amber Koskey in this transformative lap dance class and discover the power of sensual movement. Whether for yourself or a partner, you’ll leave feeling empowered, confident, and ready to embrace your inner seductress.
register now
- Saturday, March 15, 2025
- 4:00pm - 6:00pm EDT
- 8519 Pickards Meadow Road Chapel Hill, NC 27516
- Members only event
- $35 Members-only event
Join us in this sacred exploration of connection, healing, and awakening to the infinite potential within the yoni and the human spirit.
Sacred Yoni Stroking – A Path to Conscious Connection
Dive into the profound practice of yoni stroking, an intentional and sacred journey into self-awareness, connection, and empowerment. This class invites participants to explore the intimate relationship between physical touch, emotional awareness, and spiritual presence.
Through guided breathwork, somatic exercises, and mindfulness practices, you will learn how to create a safe, consensual, and supportive environment for this deeply healing and connective practice. Yoni stroking is presented not as a sexual act but as a meditative ritual to honor the divine feminine, release stored tension, and deepen a conscious connection with self and your partner.
What You’ll Learn:
- The philosophy and purpose of yoni stroking within a conscious connection framework.
- Tools for creating a container of trust, consent, and safety.
- Techniques for mindful stroking, focusing on intention and presence.
- The role of breath, touch, and energy flow in fostering connection and healing.
- How to hold space for yourself or your partner with compassion and respect.
Who Should Attend:
This workshop is open to individuals and couples of all gender identities who seek to deepen their understanding of conscious connection, sensual healing, and the wisdom of the body. Beginners are welcome, and no prior experience is necessary.
Important Notes:
- This is a partnered class; individuals are welcome to come learn. It is a ritual-focused workshop; touch to the yoni will be part of the class. You may choose not to participate if you like
- Emotional safety and respect are paramount, and participants are encouraged to engage at their own comfort level.
- Please bring a journal, a yoga mat, and an open heart.
- january 2025
- TBA
- Members only event
- Cost: Free
Navigating Safer Sex Conversations
What to Expect:
Understanding Safer Sex: Explore the essentials of safer sex practices, including contraception, STI prevention, and the importance of regular testing. We’ll discuss the latest information and methods to ensure that you and your partners can enjoy sexual experiences with peace of mind.
Effective Communication: Learn how to initiate and navigate conversations about safer sex with confidence and clarity. Whether you’re discussing boundaries, preferences, or concerns, this workshop will equip you with the tools to communicate openly and respectfully, creating a foundation of trust and mutual understanding.
Consent as the Cornerstone: Delve into the vital role of consent in safer sex. We’ll cover how to recognize, respect, and affirm boundaries, ensuring that all parties feel safe, valued, and empowered in their choices.
Overcoming Barriers: Address common challenges and discomforts that can arise during safer sex conversations.
Supportive Environment: This workshop is a judgment-free zone where all questions, experiences, and identities are welcomed. Whether new to these conversations or looking to deepen your understanding, you’ll find a supportive community ready to learn and grow together.
Who Should Attend:
What to Bring:
- A notebook and pen for jotting down insights
- An open mind and willingness to engage
- Any specific questions or scenarios you’d like to discuss
- Saturday, April 19, 2025
- 12:00pm - 2:00pm EDT
- Benzai Bloomstead 2001 E Greensboro Chapel Hill Rd. Graham, NC 2725
- $50 Members-only event
Join us in April for an unforgettable day under the open sky. The Art of Connection Club’s Nude Cookout is more than just a meal—it’s a celebration of freedom, connection, and life’s simple pleasures. Come as you are, and leave with your heart full and your spirit lifted.
Nude Cookout: A Celebration of Body Freedom
Embrace the beauty of Spring and embody freedom at the Nude Cookout, a one-of-a-kind event where we come together to celebrate our bodies, community, and the joy of shared meals in the warmth of the sun and open air. As the season warms, so too can our hearts with self-love—shedding layers of clothing, judgment, and inhibition in a space that honors authenticity and connection. Clothing is optional. You can come and not be nude.
What to Expect:
- Body Freedom: This event invites you to enjoy the liberating experience of being nude in a safe, welcoming environment. Whether you’re a seasoned naturist or new to the experience, this is an opportunity to celebrate your body exactly as it is—free of shame, judgment, or expectations.
- Delicious BBQ: Savor a mouthwatering cookout featuring a variety of grilled delights, including vegetarian. Our skilled chefs will prepare a delicious spread that everyone can enjoy, with fresh, seasonal ingredients that reflect the bounty of spring.
- Connection & Community: Gather around the grill, enjoy good food, and engage in meaningful conversations with like-minded individuals. This cookout is more than just a meal—it’s a chance to connect with others who value authenticity, openness, and pleasure in a relaxed and supportive setting.
- Warmth & Comfort: As the May warms up, we’ll have fire pits and places to sun. You will find plenty of space to relax, chat, or bask in the beauty of the moment.
- Music & Fun: music, lawn games, and a laid-back atmosphere that encourages playfulness and joy. Whether you’re dancing to the rhythm of the music or simply enjoying the vibe, this is a time to unwind and celebrate the pleasures of life.
Who Should Attend:
This event is open to all members of The Art of Connection Club, regardless of gender, orientation, or body type. Whether you’re attending solo, with a partner, or with friends, you’ll find a welcoming and inclusive community ready to celebrate with you.
What to Bring:
- A towel or blanket to sit on
- Your favorite beverages (BYOB)
- A playful spirit and a readiness to connect
- Optional: A robe or cover-up for when the sun sets
Dance Brave: Awakening the Erotic through Somatic Movement + Dance Social
Created by Tiffany Chambers-Goldberg C-IAYT, C-IYTT, LMT, Dance Brave is a somatic, trauma-informed embodiment practice for women who long to feel sensually unfrozen, connected to the erotic, and deepen their relationship with intimacy.
When women integrate with shadow aspects that present as fear of rejection, betrayal, and exile, we expand into our true essence of wholeness. Sensuality is turned off by shame, stress, and trauma. Dance Brave uses breath, movement, and sound to turn it back on.<br>
What to Expect:
- Sensual Dance Journey:
In a candle-lit room with sheepskin rugs, pillows, and blankets, explore movement as a form of self-expression and sensual awakening. Through guided dance and free-form exploration, you will cultivate a more intimate relationship with your gorgeous body and unlock your erotic energy. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about feeling and being present with your body’s natural flow. - Soothe Your Nervous System:
Dance Brave regulates the nervous system through the lens of sensuality. It is an opportunity to use your senses in response to your environment which is everything that is both external and internal within you. A sensual integration practice can complete the stress cycle, and connect you to your sensual well. - Empowerment, Creativity, and Sisterhood: Share this intimate experience with a group of like-minded women who are committed to eradicating shame and deepening their relationship with intimacy. In a supportive, non-judgmental environment, you’ll find confidence, connection, and access to your creative well while having an effing good time!
Who Should Attend:
This class is for women who want to feel deeply connected to their bodies, release inhibition, and explore their sensual and erotic selves. It’s time to reclaim what’s yours. Sensuality is an integral part of your wholeness—a vital resource meant to be harnessed for the unique creative expression of your being. When you strengthen your ability to hold this energy, you will expand. Whether you are new to somatic practices or have been on a personal growth journey for some time, Dance Brave will meet you where you are and support your evolution. I promise, that you can’t mess this up.
What to Bring:
- A yoga mat and a blanket
- I recommend you wear comfortable clothing that you can move and stretch in with ease, particularly fabrics that feel unrestrictive, invite flow, and feel good on your skin. However, you interpret this is exactly right; trust your instincts.
- This is a clothed event. That said, I encourage you to wear beneath your clothes, lingerie, or your favorite panties/bra. Students are permitted to peel top layers of clothing off.
- Saturday, May 17, 2025
- 7:00pm - 9:30pm EDT
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Eco Institute
8519 Pickards Meadow Road
Chapel Hill, NC 27516 - $35 Members-only event
If you’re ready to feel unfrozen, reconnect with your erotic power, and deepen your relationship with intimacy, then Dance Brave is calling you.
- coming soon
- TBA
- Free (donations welcome)
Come as you are and see if The Art of Connection Club is the community you’ve been searching for. The Community Picnic is a no-pressure, all-welcome event designed to give you a taste of what we’re all about. We look forward to meeting you and sharing in the joys of connection, conversation, and community.
Community Picnic: Discover The Art of Connection Club
Curious about The Art of Connection Club? Join us for a relaxed and welcoming Community Picnic, where you can meet members, explore our philosophy, and see if our community fits you. This gathering is about connection, conversation, and enjoying life’s simple pleasures in a beautiful outdoor setting.
What to Expect:
- Meet & Greet: Get to know the vibrant and diverse members of The Art of Connection Club in a casual, friendly environment. Whether you’re new to the concept of sex positivity or already embracing it, this picnic is the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals and learn more about what we stand for.
- Learn About Our Mission: Discover the core values that guide The Art of Connection Club, including our commitment to creating safe, shame-free, and judgment-free spaces for exploration and education. Hear from current members about their experiences and what makes our community unique.
- Q&A Session: Have questions? We’ve got answers! We are open to questions. You can ask anything about the club, our events, and what it means to be a member. This is a great chance to gain a deeper understanding of how we foster consent, accountability, and pleasure in everything we do.
- Enjoy Delicious Food: Bring your favorite dish to share and enjoy a delicious potluck-style picnic. We’ll provide the basics—like snacks, drinks, and desserts—but feel free to contribute something you love. This is a great way to connect over food and find common ground.
- Relax and Play: Whether you’re in the mood for lawn games, casual chats, or simply soaking up the sun, the picnic offers a variety of activities to enjoy. The atmosphere will be laid-back and easygoing, allowing you to engage at your own pace.
- Explore Membership: If you find that our values and community resonate with you, we’ll provide information on how to join The Art of Connection Club. Membership comes with a range of benefits, including access to exclusive events, workshops, and a supportive network of individuals committed to personal growth and sexual well-being.
Who Should Attend:
What to Bring:
- A blanket or lawn chair for seating
- Your favorite dish or snack to share
- An open mind and a desire to connect
- Optional: Games, musical instruments, or anything else that adds to the fun
Online Course: Non-Violent Communication for The Art of Connection Club
What is Non-Violent Communication?
- Observation: Learn to distinguish between what you observe and the judgments you make about those observations.
- Feelings: Identify and articulate your own feelings without blaming others.
- Needs: Recognize and express your underlying needs and values.
- Requests: Formulate clear, positive requests to meet your needs and the needs of others.
Course Objectives
- Develop a deeper understanding of NVC principles and practices.
- Cultivate empathy and active listening skills to enhance communication.
- Learn to express yourself honestly and openly without triggering defensiveness in others.
- Build stronger, more authentic connections within The Art of Pleasure Club and beyond.
- Practice accountability and repair in communication breakdowns.
Course Benefits
- Gain confidence in your ability to communicate effectively and empathetically.
- Enhance your relationships within The Art of Connection Club and your personal life.
- Develop a supportive network of like-minded individuals committed to non-violent communication.
- coming soon
- Mighty Networks
- Members Only Free
The Non-Violent Communication course is available to all Art of Connection Club members. To enroll, simply log in to your member account and navigate to the “Courses” section.
Join us on this transformative journey to improve your communication skills and build more meaningful connections. Embrace the power of empathy and understanding with Non-Violent Communication at The Art of Pleasure Club!
